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carnal-cravings:

“Oooooh I am so mad right now, Daddy.  I have my angry face on. Do you see my angry face?”

“I do, princess.”

“Good.  I’m not moving either.  I’m staying right here.  Nope, ain’t gonna move… cause, angry.”

“I see, princess.”

*She narrows eyes and glares at Daddy, showing her resolve*

*Daddy moves forward to stand in front of her, unfolding her arms and taking each hand in his own, then leans in to kiss her forehead softly*

“Come along, princess.”

“Okay, Daddy.”

(Source: ifaptocosplay)

The Dominant does not seek to change His submissive into what he wants, but revels in the chance to show her what she can become. He enjoys showing her those strengths she already possesses, and guides her only, helping her to grow into the person she wishes to be. He coaxes her into finding her own path, but never states outright what that path should be. Once found, He will keep her to her task, gently pushing her to become the woman He knows she can be.
The Dominant (via sir-paul-her-dominant)
“In fact her maturity and blood kinship converted her passion to fever, so it was more affliction than affection. 
It literally knocked her down at night, and raised her up in the morning, for when she dragged herself off to bed, having spent another day without his presence, her heart beat like a gloved fist against her ribs. And in the morning, long before she was fully awake, she felt a longing so bitter and tight it yanked her out of a sleep swept clean of dreams.”  ~ Toni Morrison Song of Solomon
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“In fact her maturity and blood kinship converted her passion to fever, so it was more affliction than affection.

It literally knocked her down at night, and raised her up in the morning, for when she dragged herself off to bed, having spent another day without his presence, her heart beat like a gloved fist against her ribs.

And in the morning, long before she was fully awake, she felt a longing so bitter and tight it yanked her out of a sleep swept clean of dreams.”

~ Toni Morrison
Song of Solomon

A notion uncommon among the so-called “dominants” of today: a true Dominant is in control of themselves first, before ever a submissive gives their will to us. Refinement is not simply a matter of culture; it is a matter of character, a matter of self-discipline. 

If a Dominant cannot control themselves, how ever shall he or she teach you the mastery of your own Self?

a-lolitas-life:

What are the common misconceptions about D & S? (Answered by Lily Black - Click Here for Link)There are a lot of misconceptions about D & S, and it’s commonly compared to abusive relationships, which isn’t fair nor accurate. There isn’t much variance between my relationships as a submissive and one’s I’ve had that the average person would consider “normal”; the primary difference is there are very distinct roles in the relationship.I guess the best way for me to explain it is: I am his property, and though I’m his property and I belong to him I’m his favorite possession. There’s a lot of passion involved from both parties. There’s nothing unhealthy about accepting a role as a submissive, but rather it’s the embracing of my womanhood and my desire to be there for my partner.
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a-lolitas-life:

What are the common misconceptions about D & S? (Answered by Lily Black - Click Here for Link)

There are a lot of misconceptions about D & S, and it’s commonly compared to abusive relationships, which isn’t fair nor accurate. There isn’t much variance between my relationships as a submissive and one’s I’ve had that the average person would consider “normal”; the primary difference is there are very distinct roles in the relationship.

I guess the best way for me to explain it is: I am his property, and though I’m his property and I belong to him I’m his favorite possession. There’s a lot of passion involved from both parties. There’s nothing unhealthy about accepting a role as a submissive, but rather it’s the embracing of my womanhood and my desire to be there for my partner.

(Source: docjohnson1976)

No one “makes” you feel jealous or insecure—the person who makes you feel that way is you. The choice, not usually conscious, happens inside you. When you blame someone else for how you feel, you disempower yourself from finding solutions. If this is someone else’s fault, only that person can fix it, right? On the other hand, when you own your feelings, you have lots of choices. You can talk about how you feel, you can choose whether or not you want to act on these feelings, you can learn how to understand yourself better, you can comfort yourself or ask for comfort. Owning your feelings is basic to understanding the boundaries of where you end and the next person begins and the perfect first step toward self-acceptance and self-love.
Owning Your Feelings paraphrased from The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (via thingsivelearnedfrombeingopen)

"True" Dominance

Those who follow this blog will see me use this phrase repeatedly, creating a dividing line in perception between the True Dominant and someone who is just “dominant.” This implied divisiveness is intentional, the distinction between the two deliberate, in order to bring to awareness the distinction between the common perception and the Truth. 

The role of the True Dominant is a sacred one, as was taught to me by my mentor when I was still just a pup, and as such it creates an atmosphere of liberty to cross boundaries, shatter taboos and discover the inner nature. It does this by engendering a complete and total release of any will, any choice, by submitting completely to the True Dominant. 

While it is not uncommon for there to ensue all manner of sexual misadventures, all of which are targeted at breaking down walls, this is not the actual point. The actual point is to release and regain the inner nature, by whatever path is required, and to achieve that goal the True Dominant frees the submissive to rise like the proverbial angel. 

This, then, is the role of the True Dominant, and why it is considered sacred by those who practice it, 

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